Everyone's Happiness, But Your Own

     Ok, so I finally have a topic.  It's the idea of being kind to everyone around you and wanting to make everyone happy, even if it means that you are upset.  This seems to be a problem many people have.  The happiness of others and your friendships are more important to you than maybe something that makes you the happiest.  The problem then becomes, when you do something that hurts another person, but makes you happy, you end up feeling terrible about it...Now I know people say that sometimes you need to do what's best for you, but that is hard when your personality contradicts this.  Obviously, you should choose good things for yourself at times, but it can be hard and hurt.  So question for all of you.  Is doing something that makes you very happy worth hurting one or two people, especially friends, even if it makes you feel terrible?